Hello ladies!
Is your sex life as exciting as Starsky and Hutch reruns? It’s time for you to light up with something new and incredibly HOT!
Talk dirty! Oh yeah! That is totally the ticket to some exciting new sex with that amazing man of yours. If you’re thinking, “Oh my gosh! I could never say some of those words!” then you’re wrong You can do it, baby! It’s time to intensify the heat and passion in your relationship. you know it is
Talking dirty will bring back the intimacy that the two of you once had in the beginning. And it’s not that hard to learn. Just relax, close your eyes and open your mind to the possibilities. You are doing this so that you and your partner can keep the passion in your relationship and that is all the reason you need.
If you’re still a bit shy about this, then let’s talk about some ways you can make it easier on both of you.
Even Dr. Phil would tell you that the best advice for any relationship is good communication. Open a couple of beers, sit down with your man tonight and tell him straight out that you’d like to try something new in your sex life. I guarantee you that he will be excited to hear those words. When a man hears something like that from the woman he loves, it’s music to his ears.
Let him know that you would like to start using some obscene words and phrases during sex. She’ll be surprised at first, but quickly warm to the idea when she realizes what you’re telling her.
Next, talk about the words you feel comfortable with. Say them out loud to each other. Don’t be afraid to tell him if a word offends you and you’d rather not use it. Some words have a naturally erotic sound and others are a matter of personal preference.
You might even set some guidelines for talking dirty…some rules that you’re both comfortable with. And then, of course, it’s time to try this new “toy” – try it! See how it works for both of you. As you make your way through this exciting new area, you may need to tweak a few elements here and there. But that’s part of the fun. Keep adding words or deleting them until both of you are properly stimulated.
Just be sure to keep those lines of communication open, so you both feel comfortable and happy with the direction things are going. Your sex life doesn’t have to get old and monotonous! You can make it HOT!
