One of the basic principles of modern life is the maintenance of good relationships between people and the desire to avoid conflict. In turn, you can earn respect and attention only by being courteous and self-disciplined. Therefore, nothing can be valued more by the people around us than courtesy and compassion. But in life we ​​are often faced with rudeness, harshness and disrespect towards a person. The reason here is that we underestimate the culture of human behavior and its manners.

Manners are a way of behaving, the external form of behavior, of treating people, used in speech, expression, tone, intonation, body language, gestures and even facial expressions.

In a society, good manners are considered modesty and self-discipline, the ability to control oneself and communicate carefully and tactfully with other people. The habit of speaking out loud, without shame in terms of gestures and behaviors of familiarity, carelessness in dress, discourtesy, revealed in a frank malevolence towards others, without taking into account the interests and needs of other people, is considered rude. , to blatantly impose on others. The will and desires of people, in the inability to control anger with the intention of insulting the dignity of the people around them, lack of tact, foul language, the use of derogatory nicknames.

Manners are related to the culture of human behavior and are regulated by etiquette. The label implies sympathy and respect for all people, regardless of their position and social status. It includes the courteous treatment of women, respect for the elderly, the ways of addressing the elderly, the ways of addressing and greeting, the rules of conversation, table manners. In general, etiquette in a civilized society coincides with the general requirements of courtesy, which are based on the principles of humanism.

Compassion is a mandatory condition of communication. Finesse should not be excessive or become a compliment that could lead to unwarranted praise for anything seen or heard. There is no need to strongly deny that it is the first time you see something, listen, eat and fear because otherwise you will be seen as ignorant.